Friday, December 11, 2009

Sex My Mind- Is That Too Much to Ask?


Sometimes it’s difficult to tell someone that you need them to go deeper. No, not in that sense get your mind out of the gutter. I mean deeper emotionally, spiritually, mentally. A favorite song of mine is by the artist Yuna- Deeper Conversation. The song is all about, that’s right you guessed it, deeper conversations. When you have a relationship where love is involved, how long can the relationship be sustained without conversation that plows through the surface and gets to the core? Personally, I like to be mind f*cked. If a man can’t slide my mental panties down, he has no hope of touching my tangible ones. I feel like many women have problems with men, because they don’t press them for deep conversation. Will they eventually get it? Sure, but it’s only after they’ve shared such an intimate piece of themselves with him. Then, they find out, the man is never someone they would have wanted to invite into their bed. Are females that demand a man to go deeper becoming a rare breed? I’d mainly like male opinions because most women will deny that a man can have superficial verbal intercourse with them and still get the cookie (ha). Men, how much convo do you usually give a young “lady” before you get any play? Does it depend on the girl? Also men, do you enjoy a girl who can blow your mind (yea, I know you liked that play on words ha!)? Let me know!


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=41JBNf9dyB4 <---Here is the song by Yuna. Enjoy.

6 comments:

  1. This is exactly what I needed to read right now. So many times we women settle for shallow conversation under the false impression that it is all men have to offer because men just don't like to "talk about their feelings" lol but I know those men are out there that can really blow our minds and not just tell us what we want to hear.

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  2. I appreciate your comment! I agree women must stop settling. I have actually had the pleasure of meeting more than a few men with great conversation... thankgoodness I have wonderful self control LoL

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  3. When men get a little older in the game they find out that the conversation is important to them also. I want to know if she has never read a book for pleasure but can quote every line from a Tyler Perry movie. My technique for determining her level of conversational abilities is to take her to the museum. Will she spend two hours talking about the great works of art or the thousands of years of history? Or will she spend the entire time talking about her cousins and their ignorant b.s.?

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  4. HA Good one Mike, I'm definitely going to steal your museum technique!

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  5. Good conversation will go a long way to a good relationship. I think this is why until I met my current Fiance relationship or different flings would be boring after a little while. I mean the physical part was great but I would struggle to talk to the other person due to their lack of response or sharing what they wanted in life, love, or everyday life. If both parties are able to share completely that is what makes a great relationship both mentally and physically. And yes I am a Man.

    Kurtis

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